Love and Chemistry
It is a pain to see people suffer from unsuccessful relationships. So I decide to post this page to help you understand why things happen the way they do and find some sort of relief.
After studying both Western Astrology and Chinese Astrology, I have come to the conclusion that to a considerable extend, whether love between two people grows or erodes over time depends on how good a match they are in Chinese Astrology. An explanation for this, simply put, is that people of different Chinese Zodiac Signs have different purposes and goals in life. After a long period of time together, a couple get to know each other better and their love for each other will grow or erode, depending on whether their goals are matching or not.
As to chemistry between two people, it is my conclusion that the better a match in Western Astrology, the stronger the chemistry is. An explanation for this, simply put, is that people of different Western Zodiac Signs have different approach to many things in life, including showing and perceiving love. However, chemistry also depends on physical condition. When a couple are young, the chemistry between them is always strong no matter whether they are a match in Western Astrology or not. But when a couple get older, the chemistry between them becomes weaker. Then is when being a good match in Western Astrology will help.
When both Western Astrology and Chinese Astrology are put in perspective, here is how relationships evolve under their influences. Chemistry is strong between any two people when they are young. So as long as they fall in love with each other, relationship can happen between any two young people and it can last for quite some time. But after some time, a couple are more likely to part if they are not a match in Chinese Astrology. For a couple who are a match in Chinese Astrology but not a match in Western Astrology, it is more likely for them to stay in their marriage. However, one of them (the one who is physically stronger) or both of them will have the tendency to have extra marital affairs. This is because the chemistry between them is no longer as strong as before or is weaker than the chemistry between them and their lovers outside of their marriage.
Here is one important point that I should clarify concerning the relationship between love and Chinese horoscope compatibility. Whether two people fall in love with each other or not does not have anything to do with whether they are a match in Chinese Astrology or not. Chinese horoscope compatibility only affects long term prospect of a relationship. Western Astrology, on the other hand, does decide how quickly or easily two people become intimate. The older they are, the more it becomes true to them.
Finally, I should point out that although it would be great if the person you fall in love with is a match with you in both Chinese Astrology and Western Astrology, as you can see from the horoscope compatibility charts, it does not happen often. If you wait until you find the perfect match, you may never find one. This is not because that you may never find someone who is a match with you in both Chinese Astrology and Western Astrology. It is because that you may never fall in love with one. So it is better to enjoy the love when it lasts and move on when it is over or simply do not date at all.
As to why people fall in love, it is a mystery. I have no answer to it. Maybe it is exactly because the reasons for falling in love are always mysteries that people can fall in love. So it is better not to explore them.
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July 3rd, 2007 on 3:14 am
WOW!!! This pretty much summed up what I have been recently experiencing. I am an Aquarius, my fiance/ wife is a Libra and what’s cool is we were both born the same year (’67). It’s truly amazing how alike we are! Ironically she likes it when I make decisions (where in my past was unexceptable [I was married to a Scorpio/ '66, and a Leo/'75] yes! YIKES!). I think I know why people fall in love now; true compatability and acceptance. Well, that works for us anyway. Me and mine talk about everything and we don’t have secrets. Boy! She can make me blush sometimes LOL! But I get her face red too. We spend so much time just talking and enjoying each other’s company, I’ve never had a best friend and a dream lover in the same package! Like the songs I have written about her, her voice also soothes my heart and soul and is like music to my universe. There is no candy sweeter than my Libra!
July 3rd, 2007 on 3:27 am
Also, might I add, things always happen for a reason, we will always find out the answers in time. And sometimes (as my Virgo sister once said) you just have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your “Prince” (or “Princess” in my case). Eh, it took me 30 years for her to find me but we never “grew up” anyway.
Time just passed, as we endured our struggles until we found each other again. Though true love is worth waiting for, live each day as it were your last because you never know who you will meet along the way. And if you find yourself struggling, do something opposite or different ‘cuz it ain’t working.
July 24th, 2007 on 4:44 pm
i think that most of this should actually have an effect on how people love their lives i believe that chemistry is alot stronger in the beginning and that as we age chemistry is forgotten yet lost. i believe that as a relationship goes on at some point it loses its spark and one partner goes to find it elswhere.
July 24th, 2007 on 4:57 pm
I have been studding Astrology for a good 4 years now. I have indulged in it since I was in my teens. I have discovered many things about my self and others in the past 4 years. But, I have always wondered why people in the beginning, fall in love the way they do when it is clearly written that there signs are not compatible. I have realized the “love at first sight” thing and how different signs can “wake each other up”, also make a relationship distorted. I’m Cancer/Tiger, my wife of 16 years is Sagittarius/Dragon (yes, it’s a bad marriage). What you wrote in the ”Love Chemistry” section has finally answered many of my questions. I think that younger people just didn’t put much faith in astrology, like me when I was young. What I read before we married was all bad. But, I didn’t listen. The term “Love is blind” is so true. But, I think you have completed my mission. I wish there was a way to help these younger people so as to prevent them from making the same mistake that so many people have. Having children then divorcing. I feel so bad for my children and my wife. We have not divorced yet but, It’s not a “lovey dovey” marriage anymore. She deserves a man who can make her feel loved deep in her soul as do I. Well, I know i’m rambling here. I just wanted to thank you for enlightening me. Keep up the good work. I have you book-marked and I’ll be giving your ERL out to people that I try to help with astrology. How can I work for you?
I’m not an expert but, I really love to help people. Thank you, Mark
July 28th, 2007 on 1:49 pm
Wisdom is one of the greatest gifts on earth. I love to read and hear what the experienced have to say. What Bill said makes perfect sense. A relationship of any value takes time. I firmly believe that. T o find the right fit, experimenting and learning takes time too. Chemistry does loose some of its spark, but that happens to everyone. There are a lot of outside factors to that too, but not solely based on each person’s own bodily chemicals. In response to Ashley, the key is to want to spark it back or maintain that spark with each other, not outsourcing.
I think your (Dressking) research is the answer to the whole soul mate debate. The components behind the action are just as important as the journey. I think nowadays people look for quick fixes when it comes to compatibility. Astrology is used to find the best sex partner or something surface like that. But everyone who has posted above have seemingly provided the answers to some of my questions. Stumbling upon this site has really given me room to understand why matches are and arent for the best in certain instances. Love seems to be the exception to the rule as stated in previous posts. I think love is definitely a heart moved thing, but I think part of it is choice too. The true answer will always be a mystery.
I would have to agree with you Mark. “Love is blind” in youth. I guess that is what I am trying to uncover for myself. I am a younger person (24). I got into astrology a few years ago to try to accept myself and how to use my attributes to progress and grow as an individual. Astrology is every interesting. Reading about some of the matches have potential, but this is then based on the persons involved. Maturity has lots to do with it too.
Wow, this Eastern is the key movement is really intriguing, but I kinda dont want to believe it. lol All joking aside, I really like the guy Im with now. We both havent felt like this to such a degree towards others. If all of this is true, we arent a match at all.
I know we come from different worlds, but most of the time we are always on the same level. We just think different and half the time we come up with the same conclusions. I think our relationship could be a bit better, but isnt that what time and being pro-active with your partner is about?
In Western, he is a Scorpio: mars and venus in Libra. In Eastern, he is a Metal Monkey.
In Western, I am a Pisces: Scorpio moon, Sagittarius rising and mars and venus in Aries. In Eastern I am a Water Boar.
In the negative we have miscommunication at times. There is some luggage, which we are both sorting through. The positive, we always talk out our problems and respect each others disagreements. As we both sort and discard our travel bags, we make light of it at times, discuss past experiences and try to understand why we made those decisions. Although in many ways we are similar, we are aware of and continuing to understand our differences. I actually like our dynamic. We are learning a lot about and from each other. We help each other and come up with things the other hasnt even thought of or considered sometimes. I encourage him, he inspires me. We both care a lot about each other and live our lives as honestly (we are very frank with one another and others) as we can.
September 5th, 2007 on 4:41 pm
i think horoscopes are fun to read & can brighten up your day.”)
September 30th, 2007 on 1:01 pm
It’s so amazing! Horoscopes are totally accurate (in my case, anyway)! I once fell for a Gemini guy, which was great for a while, but didn’t work out. Then I met my Sagittarius husband and we are so alike it’s untrue! I really can’t believe my luck!
December 17th, 2007 on 3:17 am
Looking for free dating websites and i saw you , while your post may be unrelated to what i am looking for but i still appreciate it, it is sensible compared to the others i have come across – wish you all the best.
January 20th, 2008 on 1:01 am
This Blog is excellent.
Im only 17, but ive gone through some
serious realationships. I didnt understand
some things that went down the way they did,
But reading this pretty much sums it up for me.
I believe in horoscopes & astrology, so stuff like this to me is entersting.
Thanks.
February 29th, 2008 on 7:34 am
I am Aquarian and my soon to be husband is a Cancerian, we get along and adore each other more than anything in this world, why do astrology books say that we are incompatable? I dont get it, because I have opened up to him about things like I have never been able to do with anyone else,,,, we are compatable and I enjoy his company more that anyone elses. I think that astrologers need to be more specific when saying certian starsigns aren’t compatable, maybe our acending sighns make us very compatable. So dont get down when they say your sign is not compatable with your other halfs.
March 1st, 2008 on 5:01 am
Hey Annie….its called the 6-8 pattern that linda explains in Love signs….aquarius feels that connection with cancer and virgo….cancer feels it with sagittarius and aquarius….i fell in love with a sag, and still am….i just cant get over him…and well, neither can he.
March 1st, 2008 on 9:32 am
Annie, Western horoscope compatibility only has an impact on your relationship when you are older, not when you are young. I guess you are still under 30. Am I right?
March 11th, 2008 on 11:47 pm
Great Insite. I met who I thought was my soul mate 8 months ago. We fell in love instantly; however we advanced quickly to a real cerebral kind of connection and our sex and love life is really strained. We are so strong on some fronts, and a catastophe on others.
I came out looking for answers and looked into astology and low and behold it’s all right there. Exactly what is happening is what is predicted. I;m a Gemini Male, She’s a … you guessed it a Pisces. I;m wrecked as I really love her, yet my gut is telling me this won;t work, and at least now I understand why.
March 12th, 2008 on 11:44 pm
If you people let your horoscopes determine who you love and how you live you’re weak. What a great excuse not to work on your relationship! What an even better excuse to toss it all away and go find a new one. While you’re at it, you can have plastic surgery, dye your hair, and get some pills from the doctor to make you think you’re happy. Grow a pair. Realize that you married a wonderful woman. She’s not doing drugs. She’s not abusing the kids. She’s not cheating on you. She’s not selling your things on ebay. She keeps a clean house. She cooks the meals. She does the laundry. SHOW SOME APPRECIATION. Instead, you whine about how it won’t work because astrology says so.
SHEEP…..YOU ARE ALL SHEEP
March 29th, 2008 on 10:31 am
yup it’s quite tru that people having good compatiblitiy in western astrology fare well in longer terms.yet it has been my experience that at first sight, its opposite attract stronger!!
im a cancerian but I was attracted first towards an aquariuan and then an aries!!! it is strange but i have a feeling that we can strike a good balance. imean any of the above and me. specially with the aquarian. earlier, when he started seeing me, i wasn’t very sure about the relationship. though at a later stage, i started admiring him for his knowledge and practical approach. i liked his punctuality, his humour. his subtle ,creative, gentle yet passionate way of romancing was what kept me craving for more!!
it was our understanding and the matching attitude towards life that kept us going smoothly.
though, when we had a fight , it was his unkind approach that used to piss me off!
he wold never forget or forgive even in my case!!!
that was the worst thing since we all our humans and have the tendency towards making mistakes.
yet the time we spent together was a great one.
the best thing about my aquarian was his loyality towards me.I simply LOVED it.the way he cared,it was unique and i know how hard it was for me and for him to move away.
we still are in contact
but know we have to drift apart.
i love him
i really do and there’s no horoscope compatibilty which can make me feel good for losing him
March 30th, 2008 on 8:47 pm
I see how Virgo/rat men & Capricorn/dragon women can really fit together, as an incredible tight fit. My husband (5 yrs) and I have been in the same “direction” since we met, and continuing still.
The only problem is that both he and I have Xs, and kids. Guess that we are not comfortable to parent ea others kids. Course his are out of the house, and mine will be this year too.
So lets hope and pray for “good times ahead”.
Thank you for publishing the encourage that I needed.
April 19th, 2008 on 2:52 am
Yes this article is 100% correct, very accurate reading of both Chinese and Western Astrology.
June 5th, 2008 on 3:37 pm
ok, I HAVE to write this…b/c it’s weighing heavy on my mind.
I appreciate the blogs insight into when the different hemispheres interpretation of time and planets comes into play in life. I will apply this knowledge in my informal studies.
While I agree that horoscopes may apply in some senses; it’s VERY important to know more than your SUN sign which is what most horoscopes hit upon. If you know your actual time of birth (may be on your birth certificate), then you’re more apt to get an accurate “reading” of your sun, moon and rising sign (yep, I’ve been studying uno piquito regarding horoscopes). Also, in the Chinese Astrology, most of the signs simply ask for your birth year; here again, knowing your birthday makes a difference as far as your Chinese sign. For example, my year only makes me a snake, however, my birthday makes me a dragon. SO, all of this stuff matters. Peace.
June 7th, 2008 on 1:08 pm
Hey…I’m really into astrology but this saggittarius can’t help but be rebellious when mother and father astrology tells her the relationships won’t work…I mean first cancer now virgo….there must be some mistake..lol
June 13th, 2008 on 10:33 pm
Am i lucky or what? My boyfriend and my chinese & western astrology are matching~ well he is younger. the ox and the pig~ the cancer and pisces. are these astrology thingy real?? hmm.. somehow its alittle true.
July 8th, 2008 on 12:28 pm
Mmm.. this kind of explains why my relationship with my love is so rocky. He is a Horse and I am a Snake. o.o I am Gemini and he is Aquarious.. how well does that work out? I cannot find anything about it.
July 10th, 2008 on 5:45 am
I just reckon this astrology would rather confuse people, if theres love and chemistry in the relationship then whats the point checking out the compatibility and depending on astrology when you can work it for yourselves. Astrology shouldnt be taken seriously… well thats what I think. Love and Light!
July 29th, 2008 on 3:03 pm
I recently started getting into astrology and reading into the signs and what my best match is. I am a Libra..and from what I have read my best matches are Leo, Sag, and Gemini. From my experience, I had a relationship with a Sag for about three years. We clicked got along great, but when it was bad.. it was bad. There was an instance comfort level, which is important. I felt more comfortable with him instantly. All in all the relationship didn’t work out. Lets just say, he couldn’t be commited to one person. Then I met another Sag and it was the same thing, theyre personality and even the comfort level was the same, instantly same with the chemisty the attraction. I found it a bit funny, but weird at the same time. I am interested in him but the fact that he reminds me so much of the X ..and like qualities makes me worry a bit. I completely believe astrology I won’t base every guy I meet on their sign and if thats not the perfect match for me, won’t mean I won’t give him a chance. I just keep it in mind, I cant help it.
But then I also met a Leo, and that was different. We clicked so well, talked about everything and anything. Personalities clicked well too. I think we just built a great mutual respect for each other, even a friendship. And we fell for each other, I don’t think I felt so deeply for someone before. Yes, I have been in love, but this was on a different level, and I wouldn’t call it love. But I am crazy about him. So now am I crazy?? Or should I really not by into the perfect match predictions.
August 6th, 2008 on 5:52 am
Before, I just ignore the zodiac compatibility, until after three consecutive relationship did not worked-out. Now I know why. The reading is accurate (for me yeah)
August 6th, 2008 on 10:01 pm
Hey cheng, glad you found your way… keep the faith, Look where it got me!… I am so in love… and the stars brought him to me. to you to? Did you find love that did not fail?
metamorphosis, see in you.
I hope you don’t find yourself perplexed, let the stars guide you.
September 11th, 2008 on 7:45 am
well i just would like to add a comment for all the non-belivers of astrology….. sorry but astrology is real!!! firstly, in order to understand astrology one has to have an open mind (closed minded people refer to open minded people as SHEEP!) Anyway, I’ve been studying astrology since I was 11 years of age; i am now 30. I’ve gotten so good at reconizing people zodiac sign that i would usually be able to tell them their sign by simply having a conversation with them. Most of the time i am correct or indecisive betweem two signs of the same element….. i’ts really a trip!
As far as relationships are concerned, not only are the sun signs important but moon signs and venus compatibility are important too! So it crucial that you know you and your potential partners time of birth.
If you have trouble beliveing zodiac astrology, why is it that you are always attracting more of one particular sign that the other…… you probably cannot answer because the answer is beyond you…..the answer lies in the stars!!!!
September 13th, 2008 on 11:41 pm
And I’m 15 years old, and my b.f is 16. I truly love him. He makes me happy, and i personally belive that pieces is the best match for me. I really like reading about horoscopes. It’s pretty fun if you like reding about your sign. My boyfriend and i started off as best friends, but I didn’t know he had a mad crush on me. I never knew how strong he felt about me untill he finally told me. He is like a child. He can piss me off sometimes, but i just have to learn to live with it.
October 8th, 2008 on 4:01 am
hey every one u guys are not god and i see how u guys are acting like a jerk some one tels me that my love is not perfect match for me so i would be like yea right aaahahahaha no way god is in control remeber it u all
October 11th, 2008 on 9:41 pm
you guys are gayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy cant believe how stupid this shit is!!! get over yourseves!!!!!
November 12th, 2008 on 1:29 am
So I’m working on a project for my Astronomy class at the moment…its about the Stellar Mythology of the Zodiac. Something I find absolutely compelling, anyway staying on topic.
I had a friend of mine give me a tarot reading …about two months ago. In the reading it told me a friendship would break and mend. A ‘relationship’ would burn hot and end only to lead into a better longer lasting more meaningful relationship. and the end of the story would be me as a happily married soccer mom…of course those weren’t the exact words but were what we got out of it.
The thought kind of broke my heart because the guy I was sort of seeing [Libra] drove me WILD and I could picture our lives together He was the perfect man from my dreams. I honest to god thought he was THE ONE.
But naturally things didn’t work out. We have a lot of differences. and even friendship can be extremely trying for us. However now there is someone new in my life.[Taurus] He and I are very compatible and everything in the comparability thing that was written is right on the money.
I’ve been afraid to pursue it much further, but honestly.
Now i’m pretty certain of things. =)
November 20th, 2008 on 12:16 am
lmao wow. its funny cause im a cancer and my boyfriend is a Libra but yet we’re still together although some of this stuff is true it kinda worried me with out compatibility but yet he just shrugged and laughed i asked him why he was laughing and yelled at him that it wasnt funny haha and his response was “look at us we’re still together right?” and i told him yes and he was that , that was all that mattered. <3
January 2nd, 2009 on 11:19 pm
I am a scorpio, and I’ve had my share of dating men under different moons. I’ve tried taurus, right down to sagitarius men. Needless to say nothing ever really turned up. As a strong person myself I guess I grow impatient with the dilly daddle, or the confused. Lately however, I’ve met an aquarius and boy while he is cute, and loveable he is not befitting I’d soon realized. Anyhow, I’m on to a capricorn, and interestingly he is a dreamer like myself, spritually inclined even, but who knows where this will go. Nonetheless, I’ve took some tricks and trades from my past romances and on the prowl I go….so while everyone is not compatible, you can learn something from everyone, and they you. But my most important lesson to everyone on here is first know thyself, and then the rest shall be added!
January 8th, 2009 on 12:36 pm
my partner and i are Taurus/Capricorn and Tiger/Pig, myself the former and he the latter. what’s interesting is how both chinese and western come into play. as tigers do, i love to travel and see the world, experience everything, and i like my space. i hopped a plane to hawaii alone for christmas, giddy with excitement when i arrived. but my taurus side kicked in after 4 or 5 days and i was aching for home and my routine. i’m a balance of taurus and tiger, and i figure most people fall somewhere in between, too.
February 1st, 2009 on 9:31 pm
so, i don’t get it. my boyfriend is a gemini, and i am an aquarius. the signs are 100% compatible and most places say that we are soulmates. HOWEVER, i am a rabbit and he is a rooster, and that says that we will never work together. i’m confused!
February 4th, 2009 on 3:03 am
it’s super interesting…
March 4th, 2009 on 10:59 am
If we fall in love than this would be the most simple answer you can find : It is because they feel suddenly something different for that person, even with astrology, you will never find the exact answer but love is no mystery, it’s magic….
March 16th, 2009 on 10:46 am
Cancer woman/aquarius man
dragon woman/rat man
great relationship when its up
lots of hurt during the tumultuous times.
A lot of sites give different insight ont cancer/aquarius romance. some say it will never work some say opposites a track. It can be an awesome relationship but compromise and understanding is key. In our situation cancer’s moodiness is quite similar to the aquarius’ detached nature making it easier to understand. the aquarius’ free-spirit/independence is an issue tho
March 22nd, 2009 on 7:29 pm
I’m pisces and my ex-bf is a gemini. this site is beyond true about the two. Gemini is mean… they think they’re nice…no. It is in fact a love/hate at first sight. i could feel his energy and i knew he liked me, but i constantly had anxiety around him. He made me like him then totally changed. He was the most uneffectionate guy i have EVER dated, your on HIS time. not that he’s a bad guy, but he is damn sure not a sensitive one. keep him as a friend and mr. nice guy will be right around HAPPY AND EXCITED to be with you. Pisces love to be loved, and adored.
Geminis love they’re world, and they love to play games.Once they have a sweet nice pisces… they turn into the real Gemini that they are. GAME OVER!
March 28th, 2009 on 4:29 pm
I think i’m one of the rare lucky ones in that I match my bf in both western and chinese astrology. In western I’m a Taurus and he’s a capricorn and in chinese, I’m a water rat while he’s a fire dragon. Both our birthcharts show a 99 – 100% match for both astrology symbols….just we live so far away from each other I hope the distance (other side of the planet) doesn’t split us
April 26th, 2009 on 8:40 am
please explain why he behaves so differently with me though i love him to much
April 30th, 2009 on 2:56 am
Wise words at the end of this explanation. This article gave me a better understanding of the differences between compatibility and lasting, long term love.
May 6th, 2009 on 11:38 am
I think this is very true, however; I would like to add that we cannot always judge on the sun sign compatibility when finding love in the Western compatibility. Moon and Rising are equally important and the Ying and Yang also must be taken into consideration.
July 24th, 2009 on 11:40 am
love is mystreious yet i ntry 2 find it in any possible way
August 20th, 2009 on 12:00 am
I am in a relationship where I am a Cancer woman and my boyfriend is a Scorpio man
we also match with I am the snake woman and he is the rooster man Perfect match yes we are the perfect match what are the chances of matching all signs? I am blessed to have him we were made for each other.
September 4th, 2009 on 2:33 pm
i am married to a capricorn he is the most controling person while he acts like this angel to almost everyone else he is a tyrant to me & our grown children in then past it was not so bad but since he has retired i can’t go anywhere unless he goes to this is driving mad
September 21st, 2009 on 7:21 pm
01/15/1932 – Sheep/Capricorn/Male
07/03/1934 – Dog/Pisces/Female
One of the best match in Western but in Chinese zodiac, it is one of the worse match. Minor fight some overtime, nothing serious. They live a happy life together with 3 kids, till death do they part (Grandmother, grand father still around).
October 19th, 2009 on 8:38 pm
ya i had a huge crush on this guy at school and well i get his birthday and number from a friend i check this site out and it said we were a match made in heaven since im a pisces women and hes a scorpio man, but ya i got the courage to call and ask him out and now were going out and he so nice and hot lol but im happy i found this site cuz it gave me courage
November 5th, 2009 on 2:11 am
Okay, so the man that I love is a Pisces/Tiger and I am a Cancer/Goat. Horrible matching in Chinese, wonderful in Western. Really? I want to be able to sustain our relationship for a long, long time. This man is amazing. I hope we can make it last and beat the odds!
November 13th, 2009 on 3:45 am
i fell over heels for this scorpio, and i am a leo female of course.we spent a fun weekend together he did things to me that i haven’t felt in a long time, and i want to see him again,but i don’t think he wants to see me.please tell me what to do about this situation please,because my so called friend hated on us i think, and he ask me a question of something that i know that she told him,and i kinda lied about it and i don’t know why.but i want to talk to him again please help me with situation?
November 25th, 2009 on 5:25 pm
i am a 21 year old gemini/dragon lady and i am in love w/ a 41 year old cancer/monkey man. guessing, 20 years makes a big difference b/c he is not in love with me. maybe its because our western comp. isnt too compatible. or maybe im just in love with the idea of him. hes an awesome person and anyone who ends up with him is the luckiest woman like ever! hehe
July 31st, 2010 on 8:20 pm
? am a capr?corn ?’m in a relat?onsh?p w?th scorp?o man ?n a long t?me, but we separated almost 7 years,and we see each other and we fall ?n love aga?n but ? dont know ?f he loves her new gf/or w?fe bcoz ?’ve been see all of the?r p?cs ?n another page and ? th?nk they are ?nlove each other.but ? love h?m so much ? wa?t for h?m almost 7 years and he was a lot of plan about us like,, we could start a new l?fe we will bu?ld our own house or a bus?ness and he wants to marry me but ?m not prepared for that but ? dont wanna lose h?m ?m scared..pls help……..?f he ?s true w?th me or someth?ng l?ke a noth?ng..
August 15th, 2010 on 1:40 am
I am an Aquarius- who thinks she fell in love with a Sagittarius. We were perfect for each other.We laughed and got along so well. I honestly don’t know what could have happened besides the fact that this just wasn’t our time.
When I found out a couple months after he moved on with another girl (Capricorn). I thought to myself we she must be prettier than me. Because there is no way she has a better personality than me… I actually seen a picture of her, not because I went looking for her, she came trying to find me. Crazy- she is a stalker. Never the less- I found out she wasn’t more pretty than me. The personality I already have confirmed- Why do you think he choose her to be with and not me? Also will be regret it? Do you think this relationship between sagittarius(male) and Capricorn (female) will last? Will be see my value one day?
Also I get these weird feelings sometimes as if I can feel him thinking about me>? Or am I crazy. I have to much pride to see if it is true. I feel like he choose her, why even bother.
August 26th, 2010 on 1:43 am
Cancer (rat) woman + Scorpio (pig) man and we’re a great match on all ends
Hopefully, it’ll stay that way <3 its been a wonderful relationship thus far 
October 15th, 2010 on 9:58 pm
Hey!!
This is great..
I am a Libra/horse and he’s a libra/tiger.. we’re perfect for the chinese astro combo but I’m not so sure about western… I hope it lasts.. but at times.. it feels like he’s losing interest.. and getting distant day by day.. I dunno if it’ll last… what do u guys think????
December 2nd, 2010 on 1:26 pm
Hi were a Leo/Snake female and Sagittarius/Ox and oh my goodness…its beautiful. Keep us in your thoughts and offer any advice to keep us strong!
December 7th, 2010 on 10:50 pm
Hello there I’m a leo women! Why can’t I never be happy in a relationship! Is it because leos want the best out of all! I had a relationship for two years with an scorpio!! I love him but I hate scorpios they are evil!! Plz help I want a good match
January 14th, 2011 on 8:59 pm
Hey I was told several times to stop looking. But when I do meet someone they are either strange crazy or both.